You may be wondering...
Why wouldn't I DIY this?
You could.
But often, we spend so much time trying to solve the problem that by the time our glorious velcro routine chart is actually done, we've lost the steam required to implement it.
Our founder has done all the work for you — ten years of work, in fact — coming up with the perfect system for your family.
The result is a system that might look simple, but has every single thing accounted for — including a fall-back for routine items or activities that you forgot.
After all, the last thing you want to do is spend a bunch of time DIYing something, paying to have it laminated, and then discovering you forgot something.
Plus, you can feel good that you're supporting a single mom's hard work.
What makes this different from other visual schedules?
“We've tried to create visual systems before, but we really struggled to pull systems together that we could see all the way through and stick with.” — Jessye
You may have downloaded a visual schedule on Etsy or tried to DIY your own. Maybe you got one on Amazon, or you have a big command center, but the kids aren't referencing it.
Mighty + Bright's visual schedules are different (that's why we get feedback like Jessye's!). Every aspect of our well-thought-out visual system is thoughtfully designed. Here are a few of the problems our schedules solve:
- What items do I add to the system? It requires a lot of mental load to figure out everything that goes into a visual system, and by the time you *do* all that, you've fun out of steam. We've done all the work for you.
- We don't stay motivated to use it. We need something engaging and fun in order to stay motivated (that's why we use fun stickers, which everyone LOVES, magnets that make that satisfying "click," and fun add-ons like our Stay on Task bracelet.
Why are these so expensive?
We fully recognize that these charts aren't cheap. But there are several great reasons for that.
High quality with a thoughtful design
We've spent the last ten years perfecting these schedules. They're extremely tough. Made of thick, powder-coated metal and finished with a thick dry erase varnish, they're built to stand up to years of sticky fingers and constant dry-erasing.
They're also thoughtfully designed. Every aspect of these charts — from the neutral color of the chart itself to our exclusive method of using reusable stickers — is intentional. They're strategically designed to be engaging, so they actually get used long-term. They may look simple, but that's because we've taken all the guesswork out of it for you, so you're ready to go in fifteen minutes.
Meant to last years
Unlike a $10 chore chart from Target or a DIY from Pinterest, these are investments that are meant to last.
We're a small business
And speaking of Target, another major factor in our prices is that we are a small business.
We don't have the buying power of Target, which means our products are more expensive for us to purchase. We also don't have the same flexibility as Amazon — we are real people.
Sara runs the business. Brianna runs the warehouse. Katie helps with social media and managing projects. And Cherry helps source products. When you buy from Mighty + Bright, you're helping real women put food on the table every night. In fact, 50% of our operation are single moms. And we are very, very grateful.
I have multiple kids. Do I need a calendar or chart for each?
If we want a tool like this to work, we want our kids to feel a sense of pride and ownership and like they had a part in building it.
Part of being a kid is feeling like life is happening to you. All the grown-ups make all the decisions, they're constantly telling you what to do and what not to do...just bossing you around, all day long.
Being part of the conversation about what is going to happen during the week or day gives kids a sense of control that every human needs in order to relax, no matter what their age is.
When you're splitting the calendars between multiple kids, you can understand how that sense of control might be diluted.
When they feel a sense of ownership over the calendar because it represents them and their lives, they feel a sense of pride. And with that sense of pride, comes a willingness to use it. And when they use it, they feel even more pride, and more responsible, and they continue to use it.
When something belongs to just us, we like it better. And we want them to like this and use it. So as much as I wish I could tell you that the kids can share it, it's going to be much more effective if they have their own.
What if I want to show a whole month at a time?
The decision to carry only weekly calendars was not made lightly — it was made based on research about what kids and people who struggle with executive function can handle.
It can be easy to get overwhelmed by a lot of information.
And the truth is, depending on how functional our executive function is, the less we can see at a time — and the more we're forced to reevaluate the information instead of "setting and forgetting" it — the more we benefit from showing less of our schedule at a time.
For Kids
Depending on their age, kids can handle only about a week or two at a time. Especially when they're going through something difficult, it can actually increase anxiety to see too far down the line.
Also, depending on their age, they might not be able to think that far down the line. When a kid asks for a snack and you tell them they can have one in five minutes, they react like, "that is literally my whole life, I will starve to death." So if five minutes feels like that, imagine what a three weeks might feel like!
The goal is to display the child's life for them to understand — not to create a command center for the whole family. In this case, making it as simple as possible is a benefit.
How (and When) to Show More than a Week
That said, if you have a reason to show more than one week at a time (such as co-parenting arrangement where the child sees a parent every other weekend), you might want to create an always up-to-date perpetual calendar. Here's a post from Instagram showing you how to do that.
How do I use these to divide labor with my partner?
Our system is a straightforward, actionable way to take all of the tasks involved in running a household and divide them between partners (and kids, in some cases).
By sitting down with your partner and a set of stickers (usually our Grown Up Chore Charts), you'll have a ready-to-go list of household tasks — including tasks that represent planning and other mental labor — so you can easily rebalance your to-do lists, making sure everyone is doing their part.
Declutter Your Mind (Finally)
Our brains are constantly full of demands, from every area of life.
We've thoughtfully created a system that turns all of that mental mayhem into tangible, concrete pieces that you can actually touch.
All of the work is done for you: you don't have to think of all the things you have to do before you even get into prioritizing and delegating them.
Now you can actually see what you have time and energy for… and what you need to leave off your list entirely (or delegate to someone else).
Stick 'em Again and Again
Our proprietary design incorporates unique reusable cling stickers, which are designed to use with our magnets. They can be used over and over again to customize your visual system.
We've thought through everything, and know that you don't want a lot of little pieces that can get lost. Store them on the back of your chart when not in use.
Like Magic for Kids
Kids feel safest when they know what to expect.
Visual schedules not only help kids to understand their lives more clearly — having their own calendar actually empowers them. See, life happens to kids. But when they know the plans and feel like they've had a say in some of it, they don't need to struggle for power every day. That means way more tolerable behavior.
This habit will be a game changer: not only because you're showing your kids what to expect every day, but also because this time gives kids an opportunity to ask questions, voice concerns, and connect with you. That's why we call it a "Connection Calendar."